
As I was recently in a 'circle' of pastors, the discussion centered around "how churches and their events have to compete against secular events."
Many smaller churches (120 members or so) today struggle especially with their youth groups, because often their youth are required to be regular attendees at extra curricular school events (sports, band, etc)
So, one of my colleagues was ready to send out a letter to his congregation members in which he explained the importance of regular church attendance . . . especially of the youth, etc. and he argued in his letter that parents have the responsibility to guide their children on a journey of faith.
As he presented the letter to his board for approval he was told that the letter was too pointing, that it may agitate congregation members and that a letter like that would sound like as if parents who decided against events at the church are labeled as bad parents.
Needless to say, he was frustrated, because he felt as he did nothing more then to remind people of faith to be faithful to their faith community.
I know that some of you may have to offer some comments about this very subject, because you may have a similar experience or maybe you can offer a solution?
 
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