I recently received an email from a member, who asked if it would be important to indicate in a resume/profile that one was divorced. The profile on our site that is filled out by pastors only offers the option of "single" or "married". I know that some churches would reject a pastor who is divorced, but it does raise the following theological question: If the spouse of a pastor asked for a divorce, without any willingness to reconcile, on what basis does the church from her understanding truly know that the pastor should not be the Shepherd (anymore/again)?
Allow me to offer you another scenario: Assume for just a minute that the spouse of a pastor mistreated the pastor emotionally, physically, etc. and again is not willing to reconcile. Should the pastor, who is innocent suffer for the choice the spouse made?
 
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