In contrast to
Mother's Day, Mothering Sunday is not a
celebration of motherhood, but a synonym of Laetare
Sunday. During the 16th century, people returned to
their "mother church" for a service to be held on
the 4th Sunday of Lent. This was either a large
local church, or more often the nearest Cathedral.
Anyone who did this was commonly said to have gone
'a-mothering' although whether this preceded the
term Mothering Sunday is unclear. It was often the
only time that whole families could gather
together, if prevented by conflicting working
hours.The other names
attributed to this festival include Simnel Sunday,
Refreshment Sunday and Rose Sunday. This is due to
the practice of baking Simnel cakes to celebrate
the reuniting of families during the austerity of
Lent. Because there is traditionally a lightening
of Lenten vows on this particular Sunday in
celebration of the fellowship of family and church,
the lesser-used label of Refreshment Sunday is also
used, although rarely today.
Rose Sunday is sometimes used as
an alternate title for Mothering Sunday as well, as
is witnessed by the purple robes of Lent being
replaced in some churches by rose colored ones.
This title refers to the tradition of posies of
flowers being collected and distributed at the
service originally to all the mothers, but latterly
to all women in the congregation. The Catholic
Encyclopedia, however, asserts that "the Golden
Rose, sent by the popes to Catholic sovereigns,
used to be blessed at this time, and for this
reason the day was sometimes called 'Dominica de
Rosa'".
Another tradition associated with
Mothering Sunday is the practice of 'church
clipping' whereby the congregation form a ring
around their church building and holding hands,
embrace it.
For some Church of England
churches, it is the only day in Lent when marriages
can be celebrated.
In later times, Mothering Sunday
became a day when domestic servants were given a
day off to visit their mother and other family
members. In today's more secular times, it is
generally celebrated as the British equivalent of
America's Mother's Day.