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Michael
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Change
is in the air. Despite the pervasive aura of fear, fed by images of
destruction in the Middle East and the economic turmoil buffeting every
family, there is an air of optimism, and not only in the United States,
since a new American president has taken over. The Economist uses
the word ‘optimism’ in the context of ‘America’s awesome power of
self-renewal’.
Perhaps, as most commentators have pointed out, too
many hopes are vested in his wisdom. No one person’s shoulders can
support the challenges we all now face. But it was encouraging, for
example, to see the way in forming his new administration President
Obama reached out to others who come from different ideological points
of view. Even appointing Bishop Gene Robinson to lead prayers at the
opening of celebrations for his inauguration and pastor Rick Warren to
deliver the invocation – two men as far apart as you can imagine on the
issue of homosexuality, both making fine contributions - must make one
wonder if something different is happening. In his inaugural speech the
President specifically addressed the Muslim world: ‘We seek a new way
forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect.’
I would like to look at 2009 as the year of reaching
out to ‘the other’, a year of “we” rather than of ‘them’ and ‘us’. I was
impressed by the words of a Muslim professor, Tariq Ramadan, who wrote
last year, ‘Our societies are awaiting the emergence of the new “We”. A
“We” that would bring together men and women, citizens of all religions,
and those without religion, who would undertake together to resolve the
contradictions of their society: the right to work, to housing, to
respect, against racism and all forms of discrimination, all offences
against human dignity.’
A Hindu professor, Rajmohan Gandhi, a grandson of the
Mahatma, who has just become president of Initiatives of Change
International says that President Obama’s election has awakened hope in
the hearts of many people worldwide: ‘Humanity’s extremity can be a
moment of great opportunity. Renewed awareness of the cost of greed and
corruption can inspire new honesty and unselfishness in each of us. Our
propensity to demonize “the other” can give way to fresh compassion.’
As a contribution towards developing
the ‘we’ attitude and the ending of the demonization of others, I have a
new book just published, No Enemy To Conquer – Forgiveness in An
Unforgiving World. I am grateful to Publishers Weekly which
describes it as ‘a persuasive argument for
forgiveness as a practical tool for global survival’.
The book has a foreword by a Buddhist
leader, the Dalai Lama, and contains stories from around the world of
men and women of different backgrounds - Jewish and Muslim, black and
white, Protestant and Catholic - who refuse to stereotype others, even
if they themselves have been the victims of cruelty at the hands of ‘the
other’.
I describe the work of
Muhammad Ashafa, a Muslim imam who was dedicated to the Islamization of
Nigeria, and James Wuye, a pastor who was just as dedicated to its total
evangelization, and are now called by Archbishop Rowan Williams ‘a model
for Christian-Muslim relations’. I mention a Christian friend in North
India who gave up a murderous plan of revenge for a family killing and
said, ‘I realize that I have been too sensitive to how much others have
hurt me and forgotten how much I have hurt others.’
Most of us will not have
to face such dramatic challenges. But at this moment of opportunity each
of us can play our part, in whatever small way we wish, to break through
preconceptions of ‘the other’. In doing so, each of us can help make
this the year of “We”.
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Michael Henderson is the author of
Forgiveness:
Breaking the Chain of Hate |
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